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Survival Mode: Navigating the Homecoming Horizon
Key TakeawaysLet go of the perfect reunion: prioritize simple meals, a comfortable place to rest, and time together over deep cleaning or elaborate preparations.Protect your remaining energy in the fi...

Chronicles of a Military Spouse: Care Packages
So, as a military spouse, you dread the word “deployment”. However, we do whatever we can to be supportive through that trying time. We acquire the Powers of Attorney that we need to make things happe...

The Truth About Cupid: Forget the Cherub – He’s Running a Black-Ops Matchmaking Operation
For centuries we’ve been fed the same saccharine story: Cupid is a chubby, winged toddler in a diaper, blindly firing arrows of love at random mortals. Cute, right? Harmless. Romantic…but what if I to...

Check Out These 12 Dates of Christmas Ideas
With the holidays right around the corner we can quickly get caught up in all of the “to do’s” whether it is to finish holiday shopping or pickup groceries for the family dinner or holiday party. This...

We Know What THEY Wear, but What Should I Wear?
We talk a lot about military uniforms—dress blues, ACUs, PT gear—but when your spouse gets orders for a ceremony, unit function, or military ball, your first thought isn’t always where are my keys? It...

Bridging the Gap: The Grand Finale
Parenting through military life is like trying to PCS with no orders, no Wi-Fi, and three kids who all need to pee at different gas stations. Whether your child is a tantrum-throwing toddler or a sile...

Bridging the Gap: Tweens & Teens: Connection Through Trust & Tech
If you’re parenting a tween or teen, congratulations—you’ve officially entered the land of eye rolls, mysterious door slams, and conversations made entirely of grunts and sighs. However, don’t be fool...

Bridging the Gap: Elementary Kids: Make It Interactive
If you’ve got a second grader with big questions and even bigger emotions, this part of Bridging the Gap is for you. Elementary-aged kids are starting to grasp the concept of time and distance a littl...

Bridging the Gap: Toddlers & Preschoolers: Connection Through Routine & Sensory Play
Here’s the truth—toddlers have no clue what “next weekend” means, but they absolutely know when someone feels close…or missing. For military families with young kids, staying connected through long ho...

Bridging the Gap: Ways to Help Kids Feel Close When Military Schedules Pull Parents Away
Military life comes with its own unique set of challenges, and one of the toughest…helping your kids stay connected to a parent who’s often away—whether it’s due to deployment, long hours, night shift...

Life of the Military Child (As Told By One)
Did you know April is the Month of the Military Child? Military children lead different lives than their civilian counterparts, But there are pros and cons to this fantastic job that someone has to do...

Ready, Set, Ball! A Real Milspouse’s Guide to Rocking the Military Ball!
Military balls are like prom meets the Oscars—with a side of government cheese. You’re told it’s “formal,” but what does that really mean when you’re trying to pair your husband’s Dress Blues with you...
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My Military Lifestyle
October is here; the air has that first real brisk bite to it, and the pumpkin spice fervor is in full swing. You can practically taste that first pumpkin spice latte of the season.Last October, I actually did the math on my habit and nearly choked on my latte. Three coffee runs a week at $7 each meant I was spending about $84 a month on lattes. That was the moment I put down the drive-through cup...


My Military Lifestyle
Most military families and retirees assume their health coverage rolls over from year to year without much changing. And in many cases, it does.But that doesn't mean your costs stay the same.TRICARE enrollment fees, copays, and deductibles can change annually. FEDVIP dental and vision premiums also change, and the plan that worked for your family in 2026 might not be your best option for 2027.The ...


My Military Lifestyle
If you ask me what it’s like to be a woman in the National Guard, my answer probably isn’t what you’d expect. I usually laugh and say it’s the Hannah Montana of military service. Stay with me. Balancing a Civilian Career and National Guard ServiceAs a member of the National Guard, I get to build a civilian career I’m passionate about while continuing to serve my state and country. One day, I'm lea...


My Military Lifestyle
Travel with pets in cars and trains can be nerve-wracking...flying with pets, even more so. However, like any other mode of transportation to get to your vacation site, next assignment on a PCS move, or other destination, a decent amount of preparation can go a long way toward making this a positive experience for you and your furry family members. Federal Rules for Flying With Pets: DOT and FAAAi...


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From Kickoff to Gratitude: Total Touchdown of a Sale on DiGiorno
Football season is peak chaos in most houses, meaning Thanksgiving is looming, and dinner needs to happen fast because the kids are hungry NOW. Let me share the ultimate freezer rescue with you! The Commissary has a three-day sale on DiGiorno Rising Crust Pizza that will keep everyone full, happy, and fueled up from kickoff season all the way to Thanksgiving week.Let’s be honest here, the weeks le...


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Free Military Legal Assistance: JAG Services, Eligibility, and How to Get Help
Most service members assume legal help means hiring a private attorney and paying by the hour. That assumption makes sense. For civilians, it's usually true.But if you're on active duty, a military retiree, or an eligible family member, you may have access to free military legal assistance right on your installation.We're talking about wills, powers of attorney, lease reviews, notary services, and...


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Federal Jobs for Veterans: 5 Hiring Advantages That Can Help You Get Hired
Many veterans who apply for federal jobs might think the process works the same way it does for everyone else. Submit a résumé, wait, and hope for the best.That makes sense, but it leaves out a lot.The federal government has specific hiring paths designed to help eligible veterans compete for civilian jobs. Some give you preference over other applicants. Others allow agencies to hire you without g...


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Veterans Day 2026 Free Meals, Deals and Discounts
Veterans Day 2026 is Wednesday, Nov. 11, and dozens of national chains are thanking veterans and active-duty service members with free meals, discounts, and free admission. We checked every offer below against the VA's official 2026 list, and we'll keep updating this page through Veterans Day.A few things to know before you go:Bring proof of service. A military ID, VA health ID card, Veteran ID Ca...


My Military Lifestyle
Gratitude in a Life That Balances Service and Motherhood
Gratitude can look different when your life is split between military service and motherhood. Sometimes it looks like standing in formation before sunrise, knowing your children are still asleep at home. Sometimes it looks like coming back from drill and being greeted at the door by little arms that do not care what rank is on your chest. Other times, it looks like realizing that the hardest parts...


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Get Your Brew On: Pairing Beer and Food: More than just Pretzels and Nuts!
This month, we'll explore beer styles and pair them with foods that make the experience more memorable. No matter your favorite beer, there are always a few appetizers, main courses, and even desserts that will complement your choice of brews. Cooling Temperatures need a Stout BeerStout beers pair very well with rich, roasted, savory foods, and snacks. They also complement, and are complemented by...


My Military Lifestyle
Make a Simple Pumpkin Spice Latte at Home and Save Money This Fall
October is here; the air has that first real brisk bite to it, and the pumpkin spice fervor is in full swing. You can practically taste that first pumpkin spice latte of the season.Last October, I actually did the math on my habit and nearly choked on my latte. Three coffee runs a week at $7 each meant I was spending about $84 a month on lattes. That was the moment I put down the drive-through cup...


My Military Lifestyle
TRICARE and FEDVIP 2027: Costs, Coverage Changes, and Open Season Deadlines
Most military families and retirees assume their health coverage rolls over from year to year without much changing. And in many cases, it does.But that doesn't mean your costs stay the same.TRICARE enrollment fees, copays, and deductibles can change annually. FEDVIP dental and vision premiums also change, and the plan that worked for your family in 2026 might not be your best option for 2027.The ...


My Military Lifestyle
Being a Woman Leader in the National Guard
If you ask me what it’s like to be a woman in the National Guard, my answer probably isn’t what you’d expect. I usually laugh and say it’s the Hannah Montana of military service. Stay with me. Balancing a Civilian Career and National Guard ServiceAs a member of the National Guard, I get to build a civilian career I’m passionate about while continuing to serve my state and country. One day, I'm lea...


My Military Lifestyle
Flying with Pets
Travel with pets in cars and trains can be nerve-wracking...flying with pets, even more so. However, like any other mode of transportation to get to your vacation site, next assignment on a PCS move, or other destination, a decent amount of preparation can go a long way toward making this a positive experience for you and your furry family members. Federal Rules for Flying With Pets: DOT and FAAAi...


My Military Lifestyle
Football season is peak chaos in most houses, meaning Thanksgiving is looming, and dinner needs to happen fast because the kids are hungry NOW. Let me share the ultimate freezer rescue with you! The Commissary has a three-day sale on DiGiorno Rising Crust Pizza that will keep everyone full, happy, and fueled up from kickoff season all the way to Thanksgiving week.Let’s be honest here, the weeks le...


My Military Lifestyle
Most service members assume legal help means hiring a private attorney and paying by the hour. That assumption makes sense. For civilians, it's usually true.But if you're on active duty, a military retiree, or an eligible family member, you may have access to free military legal assistance right on your installation.We're talking about wills, powers of attorney, lease reviews, notary services, and...


My Military Lifestyle
Many veterans who apply for federal jobs might think the process works the same way it does for everyone else. Submit a résumé, wait, and hope for the best.That makes sense, but it leaves out a lot.The federal government has specific hiring paths designed to help eligible veterans compete for civilian jobs. Some give you preference over other applicants. Others allow agencies to hire you without g...


My Military Lifestyle
Veterans Day 2026 is Wednesday, Nov. 11, and dozens of national chains are thanking veterans and active-duty service members with free meals, discounts, and free admission. We checked every offer below against the VA's official 2026 list, and we'll keep updating this page through Veterans Day.A few things to know before you go:Bring proof of service. A military ID, VA health ID card, Veteran ID Ca...


My Military Lifestyle
Gratitude can look different when your life is split between military service and motherhood. Sometimes it looks like standing in formation before sunrise, knowing your children are still asleep at home. Sometimes it looks like coming back from drill and being greeted at the door by little arms that do not care what rank is on your chest. Other times, it looks like realizing that the hardest parts...


My Military Lifestyle
This month, we'll explore beer styles and pair them with foods that make the experience more memorable. No matter your favorite beer, there are always a few appetizers, main courses, and even desserts that will complement your choice of brews. Cooling Temperatures need a Stout BeerStout beers pair very well with rich, roasted, savory foods, and snacks. They also complement, and are complemented by...


My Military Lifestyle
October is here; the air has that first real brisk bite to it, and the pumpkin spice fervor is in full swing. You can practically taste that first pumpkin spice latte of the season.Last October, I actually did the math on my habit and nearly choked on my latte. Three coffee runs a week at $7 each meant I was spending about $84 a month on lattes. That was the moment I put down the drive-through cup...


My Military Lifestyle
Most military families and retirees assume their health coverage rolls over from year to year without much changing. And in many cases, it does.But that doesn't mean your costs stay the same.TRICARE enrollment fees, copays, and deductibles can change annually. FEDVIP dental and vision premiums also change, and the plan that worked for your family in 2026 might not be your best option for 2027.The ...


My Military Lifestyle
If you ask me what it’s like to be a woman in the National Guard, my answer probably isn’t what you’d expect. I usually laugh and say it’s the Hannah Montana of military service. Stay with me. Balancing a Civilian Career and National Guard ServiceAs a member of the National Guard, I get to build a civilian career I’m passionate about while continuing to serve my state and country. One day, I'm lea...


My Military Lifestyle
Travel with pets in cars and trains can be nerve-wracking...flying with pets, even more so. However, like any other mode of transportation to get to your vacation site, next assignment on a PCS move, or other destination, a decent amount of preparation can go a long way toward making this a positive experience for you and your furry family members. Federal Rules for Flying With Pets: DOT and FAAAi...


