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Military Life Doesn’t Come With a Manual, But It Does Come With Support
Military Life Doesn’t Come With a Manual, But It Does Come With Support

Military life is full of moments that shape us. Some are exciting, like arriving at a new duty stati...

RESOURCES
Wearing the Uniform on the Fourth of July
Wearing the Uniform on the Fourth of July

Okay, let me tell you this now like a big sister would, because nobody really explains this part of ...

HOME & FAMI..
When Annual Training turns me into a Solo Parent
When Annual Training turns me into a Solo Parent

Let me just say this upfront, because I wish someone had said it to me like this. Annual Training wi...

RESOURCES
Pet-Friendly Stays: Kona Kai Resort
Pet-Friendly Stays: Kona Kai Resort

I didn’t expect a PCS stopover to feel like an actual vacation, but that’s exactly what happened whe...

Sunlight & Strategy: Activating Your Longer Days
Sunlight & Strategy: Activating Your Longer Days

Warmer weather also means longer days. More daylight is great for everyone. There’s more time to go ...

RESOURCES
Memorial Day Feels Different When You Wear the Uniform
Memorial Day Feels Different When You Wear the Uniform

There’s a shift that happens when you put on the uniform. Memorial Day stops being just a long weeke...

HOME & FAMI..
VSO 101 - Love Your Family by Setting Up All of Your Benefits – Survivor Benefit Program
VSO 101 - Love Your Family by Setting Up All of Your Benefits – Survivor Benefit Program

This month, we’re going to cover how to set up your Survivor Benefit Plan or SBP. For those unfamili...

FINANCE
The Best of Both Worlds…or Is It?
The Best of Both Worlds…or Is It?

If you grew up on Hannah Montana, then you already know the line we were sold: “You get the best of ...

HOME & FAMI..
Welcome to the New & Improved My Military Lifestyle: Your All-in-One Hub for Military Life
Welcome to the New & Improved My Military Lifestyle: Your All-in-One Hub for Military Life

If you’ve ever found yourself bouncing between five different websites just to catch up on the news,...

RESOURCES
VSO 101 – Learn More About the PACT Act
VSO 101 – Learn More About the PACT Act

Signed by President Biden on 10 August 2022, the PACT Act is a comprehensive set of rules and direct...

BENEFITS
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot – Learning the Lingo Series: Don’t Panic with the Paperwork!
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot – Learning the Lingo Series: Don’t Panic with the Paperwork!

Paperwork! So…Much…Paperwork! Throughout your military career (and beyond, honestly), you are going ...

CAREER & PO..
The Best PCS Tips and Tricks
The Best PCS Tips and Tricks

As PCS season, draws near, I’ve reached out to experts at my current base and future base to pick th...

Chronicles of a Military Spouse: Care Packages
Chronicles of a Military Spouse: Care Packages

So, as a military spouse, you dread the word “deployment”. However, we do whatever we can to be supp...

COMMUNITY
VSO 101 – Applying for Death Benefits: Burial and Funeral Costs
VSO 101 – Applying for Death Benefits: Burial and Funeral Costs

This blog is directed to the families of Veterans, specifically the benefits available for burial an...

CAREER & PO..
Inside Guard Life: Welcoming New Soldiers to the Unit in the New Year
Inside Guard Life: Welcoming New Soldiers to the Unit in the New Year

New year, same cold, same 0430 alarms, same “who thought it was a good idea to schedule a PT test in...

CAREER & PO..
Our Other Family Table: Thanksgiving with the Guard
Our Other Family Table: Thanksgiving with the Guard

When most people picture Thanksgiving, they imagine a table surrounded by relatives, food, and tradi...

COMMUNITY
VSO 101 – Education Benefits
VSO 101 – Education Benefits

The words ‘G.I. Bill’ first comes to mind when someone mentions military and veteran educational ben...

BENEFITS
The Government May Be Shutdown, But Your Local Commissary & Exchanges Are Open!
The Government May Be Shutdown, But Your Local Commissary & Exchanges Are Open!

With the overnight announcement of the 2025 Government Shutdown, you may be trying to navigate what ...

BENEFITS
Finish Strong: Q4 Goal Setting
Finish Strong: Q4 Goal Setting

As a mom, military spouse, and veteran, I’ve learned that the last stretch of the year can feel like...

COMMUNITY
When Finding Childcare Feels Harder Than a PCS
When Finding Childcare Feels Harder Than a PCS

One of the biggest challenges families face today—military or not—is childcare. For many parents, th...

COMMUNITY
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Let’s Wrap It Up!
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Let’s Wrap It Up!

If you’ve made it to the end of this series, congratulations—you’ve unlocked the secret level of sur...

COMMUNITY
We Know What THEY Wear, but What Should I Wear?
We Know What THEY Wear, but What Should I Wear?

We talk a lot about military uniforms—dress blues, ACUs, PT gear—but when your spouse gets orders fo...

COMMUNITY
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Make Your Health a Priority—Without Guilt
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Make Your Health a Priority—Without Guilt

Here’s the reality—military life, parenting, and keeping yourself remotely functional is a lot to ju...

COMMUNITY
Bridging the Gap: The Grand Finale
Bridging the Gap: The Grand Finale

Parenting through military life is like trying to PCS with no orders, no Wi-Fi, and three kids who a...

COMMUNITY
VSO 101 – Your Claim Has Been Approved – Now What?
VSO 101 – Your Claim Has Been Approved – Now What?

Congratulations! You and your service officer have successfully navigated the VA bureaucracy labyrin...

CAREER & PO..
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Build a Battle Buddy Network
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Build a Battle Buddy Network

If you’re reading this, chances are you’re somewhere in the Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee zon...

COMMUNITY
Hold the Line: Suicide Prevention in Our Military Community
Hold the Line: Suicide Prevention in Our Military Community

September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, and for those of us in the military community wheth...

COMMUNITY
Bridging the Gap: Tweens & Teens: Connection Through Trust & Tech
Bridging the Gap: Tweens & Teens: Connection Through Trust & Tech

If you’re parenting a tween or teen, congratulations—you’ve officially entered the land of eye rolls...

COMMUNITY
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Create Micro-Moments of Joy
Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee Series: Create Micro-Moments of Joy

Welcome back to Deployments, Tantrums, & Cold Coffee—the series for every military parent just tryin...

COMMUNITY
Bridging the Gap: Elementary Kids: Make It Interactive
Bridging the Gap: Elementary Kids: Make It Interactive

If you’ve got a second grader with big questions and even bigger emotions, this part of Bridging the...

COMMUNITY